A Special Day
Several weeks ago, my teenage son congratulated me on my graduation. During the annual American Institute of Architects Conference, I was elevated to the College of Fellows at an Investiture Ceremony in Chicago.. Amongst the Class of 2022, I along with 87 other architects from around the country wore robes, heard formal speeches and walked across a stage to receive our official “Fellow” documents. You can see how my son arrived at this confusing conclusion!
For those outside of the architecture industry, it is an acknowledgment of an individual’s contribution to the profession. From the AIA’s website, "“Fellows are recognized with the AIA’s highest membership honor for their exceptional work and contributions to architecture and society. Architects who have made significant contributions to the profession and society and who exemplify architectural excellence are selected to become members of the AIA College of Fellows. Only 3% of the AIA members have this distinction.” So what does this really mean?
I can only speak for what this 30 year journey has been like for me. Going through this Fellow process, I did a lot of soul searching to share my story with a jury who would only know me for a brief moment through words and pictures. A 35 word statement summarized my life’s work and purpose. The supporting thirtyish pages that followed outlined my education, work experiences as well as the people, projects and programs that I have had the privilege of serving. As I pondered on my life’s work, these reflections helped me to clarify my why. It was also an opportunity for me to learn from others about the impact of my involvement. Hearing those perspectives was truly a gift for me. Humbling, sometimes tearful, but with such gratitude and appreciation.
No one gets here alone, so it is also an opportunity to thank my parents whose sacrificial love and support has been priceless. I am remembering…
the encouragement you gave me to keep going when school, work and life got hard
the extra jobs in addition to your regular 9-5 you undertook to pay for my education without complaint
the example you continue to set in serving others and welcoming all
In a time when interracial marriages were just being recognized, in the face of bias and discrimination, you persevered and instilled a faith, can do attitude and strong work ethic in me. One can never pay back your parents for all they have done for you, so I dedicate this award to you.
And to my husband Marc, whose unconditional love and support affirm me everyday, I am blessed to share this moment with you. You are my inspiration for servant leadership.
To God be the glory for the things He has done!